Dec 07, 2021 | by Budi Tanrim

Optimist vs. complainer

Both hate the condition.

A complainer sees a condition that is not ideal and complains about it.

An optimist does the same thing. But do one crucial thing, which is doing something about it, unlike a complainer who waits for someone to do something and change the situation.

Venting is normal. Everyone needs it. But adopting optimism mindset is an important quality to be a good design practitioner. There is evidence that optimistic people present a higher quality of life than those with low levels of optimism or even pessimists. 1

Footnotes

  1. Conversano, Ciro et al. “Optimism and its impact on mental and physical well-being.” Clinical practice and epidemiology in mental health : CP & EMH vol. 6 25-9. 14 May. 2010, doi:10.2174/1745017901006010025 ↩

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Dec 09 Optimism is not enough
Dec 07 Optimist vs. complainer
Dec 01 Firefighting
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Nov 23 Leadership in the design system
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